Breadcrumbs Book 31 - Hugs Are for Huggers Only

What if hugs weren’t just for people? Could trees, friends, and even tricky emotions need a little love too? In Sochu: Hugs Are for Huggers Only, the kids discover that care comes in many forms—and sometimes, we need to understand others’ feelings before we show our own excitement. Whether it’s hugging a tree or understanding birthday nerves, this story shows how kindness, space, and listening help everyone feel seen.

Let these 12 breadcrumbs spark reflection on boundaries, understanding feelings, and spreading kindness the mindful way:

  1. A Tree That Needed Love
    Watch here: “Kindness to Nature—How Small Actions Help.”

  2. A Hug with Healing Power
    Watch here: “The Surprising Benefits of Hugging Trees.”

  3. Birthday Whispers Begin
    Watch here: “How Surprises Feel—Managing Expectations.”

  4. When Attention Feels Overwhelming
    Watch here: “Understanding Shyness & Social Anxiety for Kids.”

  5. Big Thoughts at the Window
    Watch here: “Quiet Moments: How to Handle Big Emotions.”

  6. A Surprise, But Not the One Expected
    Watch here: “Why Some Kids Feel Nervous About Celebrations.”

  7. When Plans Don’t Go as Planned
    Watch here: “Mindful Flexibility—Handling Disappointment.”

  8. Wondering What’s Really Happening
    Watch here: “The Power of Curiosity—How to Ask & Understand.”

  9. A Little Humor Helps
    Watch here: “Laughter, Mistakes & Learning Together.”

  10. Ready for the Big Show
    Watch here: “Courage & Confidence—Letting Yourself Be Seen.”

  11. More Than Expected
    Watch here: “Celebrating Small Wins & Unexpected Moments.”

  12. Family Reflection Activities

  • Hug a tree together and share how it feels—silly or calming, both are okay!

  • Talk about when you like hugs—and when you don’t. Everyone’s comfort matters

  • Share a memory of feeling nervous before a party or event—what helped?

  • Try “mindful surprises”—ask first before surprising someone

  • Celebrate an everyday success with a song, dance, or simple cheer

  • Practice saying, “Are you okay with this?” before hugging, joking, or playing

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